Welcome to The Unexpected Path.I call it The Unexpected Path for so many reasons. One, because none of us expected that we would some day be the parent of the deviant drop out kid, the one who is consider ed the “bad influence” of the neighborhood. Nor did we ever think that our little sweet baby would some day wind up snorting crystal meth, or shooting heroin, or smoking crack, stealing and lying or even prostituting just to get a fix, just to get high.How unexpected our own emotional well being would become. Our dreams of a loving nurturing family would simple crumble, come unglued and fall completely off the radar charts. How our pain would become so deeply devastating and even debilitating. The nights we spend terrified and worrying about another person would bring us to our knees and beyond. The not knowing what to do and where to turn would become a background noise while we scramble through the phone books, on an endless search of treatment and options that eventually result in more of the same.
The Unexpected Path is RADICAL for many because it is finally something that actually WORKS!
The Unexpected Path is Radical in our focus and approach. We set the child over to the side and begin helping the parent to heal. Face it parents, haven’t you spent years beating yourself up for what your child is doing? Haven’t you spent years even beating up your child, wondering what is wrong with them. Asking yourself “Why can’t he or she just be like other kids”. Viewing them and you and your family as a “broken” in need of fixing? We set them aside just for a short time, and spend time nurturing the parents and helping you realign with all your parts, your spirituality, your emotional, your mental, and your physical. We help you to heal.
The new model begins with one theory, one belief… Nothing, absolutely nothing happens in this world by accident. From there, we can step back and gain a bigger picture perspective. From there we are able to actually function from our wiser selves, a more centered view of what is happening and where we wish to go. We are able to distinguish clearly what our options truly are. From there we are free to move forward. From there we are able to heal. From there we are able to tap into forgiveness, into unconditional love, into generosity, and into wisdom and honor.
When you have tried every single avenue known to man, and still come up empty, still come up suffering…it is time to step into yet another of Unexpected Path, the path of living again, the path where you find the unexpected gifts in what is. Not what it should of been, not with what it was suppose to be, but exactly what it is today! The Unexpected Path is a path of trusting in something much bigger, more powerful and wiser than the human mind. The unexpected path leads to The Unexpected Path which leads yet into another unexpected path of inner freedom from suffering!
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